How to flirt: hot topics and practical tips on the Internet in the past 10 days
Flirting is an art that can both enhance intimacy and make everyday interactions more interesting. Combining the hottest topics and hot content on the Internet in the past 10 days, we have compiled a structured guide to help you master the essence of flirting.
1. Popular flirting-related topics in the past 10 days
| Ranking | Topic keywords | Search volume trends | Related scenes |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Eye flirting techniques | up 38% | First date/social occasion |
| 2 | Developing a sense of humor | up 25% | Online chat/icebreaker |
| 3 | Body language interpretation | up 19% | Dating Advanced |
| 4 | Collection of ambiguous words | stable | text flirting |
| 5 | Safety boundary setting | Add hotspot | Workplace/Social |
2. Breakdown of core flirting skills
1. The art of eyes (most popular recently)
According to TikTok’s popular video data:
-3 second rule: Look at each other for 3 seconds and then smile away, repeat 2-3 times
-triangle gaze method: Vision movement of left eye→right eye→lips
- Taboo: Staring continuously for more than 5 seconds will create a sense of oppression
2. Humor in action (hotly discussed on Weibo)
| scene | Classic speaking skills | effectiveness index |
|---|---|---|
| resolve embarrassment | "When we look at each other like this, it reminds me of a fish being stared at by a cat." | ★★★★☆ |
| Chat online | "I was debating whether to send a message, but I clicked send on my own." | ★★★☆☆ |
3. Body language code
Research on Reddit’s likes found:
- Mirroring actions (unconsciously imitating the opponent's posture) can increase favorability by 67%
- The degree of exposure of vulnerable parts such as wrists/necks is positively related to trust
- For every 15cm shortened social distance, intimacy increases by 1 level
3. Flirting strategies in different scenarios
| scene type | Recommended method | Risk warning |
|---|---|---|
| workplace flirting | Replace appearance evaluation with professional compliments (Example: "The angle of your proposal just now is very unique") | Avoid contact in separate closed spaces |
| online social | Emoticons + suspense words (Example: "I suddenly discovered that you have a special characteristic... I will tell you next time") | Avoid excessive use of sexually suggestive expressions |
4. New trends in contemporary flirting (from the master of psychology UP at Station B)
1.Metaverse Flirting: Action design when avatars interact
2.ASMR voice: Whisper chat is popular among Gen Z
3.reverse flirting: Deliberately showing weakness to trigger the other party to take the initiative (eg: "I may not be good at chatting")
5. Reminder of important principles
-Always respect the other person’s clearly expressed boundaries
- Pay attention to cultural differences (for example, East Asia is generally more reserved)
- Avoid excessive flirting in an alcoholic environment
- Flirting ≠ commitment, both parties’ expectations need to be clear
Once you’ve mastered these techniques, remember to be genuine. The highest level of flirting is to make the other person feel appreciated rather than hunted. Start practicing now!
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